Riding The Bus With My Sister - DVD CoverRiding the Bus with My Sister - The Hallmark Hall of Fame Movie

In 2005, Riding the Bus with My Sister was adapted into a Hallmark Hall of Fame Movie for CBS in which Rosie O'Donnell appears as Beth, a woman with a intellectual disability, who is dependent on her father. When her father dies, her sister, played by Andie MacDowell comes to stay with her. At first, they fight about how Beth lives her life, but after six months Rachel comes to accept her sister.

The movie was directed by Anjelica Huston and filmed in Ontario, Canada. Other parts in the movie were played by Richard T. Jones as Jesse; D.W. Moffett as Rick; and Peter Cockett as Sam. When it first aired on May 1, 2005, it was watched by 15 million people. It is frequently rebroadcast on the Hallmark channel.

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PBS News Hour Woodlyn Lawn
An interview with Rosie O'Donnell on
Entertainment Tonight (1:57)
Interviews with Rosie O'Donnell & Andie MacDowell about their roles in Riding the Bus With My Sister (2:43)
Elwyn Interview Introducing Beautiful Girl
Clip 1 - Intro to Beth on the bus Clip 2 - Rachel & Beth realize they only have each other
Beautiful Girl Book Trailer Manda Group Interview
Clip 3 - Beth & Rachel meet with the
social workers

Clip 4 - Beth & Rachel on the bus, then the bus driver intervenes regarding the rude passengers

Beautiful Girl Book Trailer  
Clip 5 - Beth & Rachel realize they are both ready to move forward


Movie Q&A

"Riding the Bus With My Sister: The Movie," The Hallmark Hall of Fame adaptation of 'Riding The Bus With My Sister' aired on CBS on May 1, 2005. Rosie O'Donnell starred as Beth, Andie MacDowell starred as Rachel, and Anjelica Huston directed. Larry Sanitsky and Rosie O'Donnell were the executive producers, and Joyce Eliason was the screenwriter.

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How did you feel about a movie being made from your book?

I felt incredibly lucky, and very appreciative. Most writers never have their work adapted for the screen, and fewer still have the adaptation done by people willing to take on such emotional and rarely discussed material. It seems miraculous that Rosie found the material so important, and that she made the movie happen.

How did Rosie discover the book?
My agent sent the editors of Rosie's magazine Rosie my book in manuscript form, to consider for excerpt purposes. Unbeknownst to me, they passed the book along to her, and that's how she saw it. I got a message on my phone at home: “Hi, Rachel Simon. This is Rosie O'Donnell. I read your book, I love your book, I want to make a movie of your book and play your sister. Call me.” At first I wondered if it was a friend playing a joke. I met Rosie the day after that call, made sure Beth was okay with everything, and things started to move forward.

How did Beth feel about the movie being made? Was she excited about the process?
Initially, she agreed to the idea of a movie, but was fairly indifferent as things started to progress. Part of the reason is that she was already very happy in her life, so the movie wasn't too high on her priority list. Another part of the reason is, until the movie was a real thing that she could watch, it was too abstract of an idea to have much meaning to her. The same had occurred with the book. She was not too interested in my writing a memoir about us until the book was a physical reality that she could hold in her hands.

However, we did meet Larry Sanitsky, the Executive Producer, and Joyce Eliason, the screenwriter, when CBS and Rosie started moving forward with the project, about a year and a half before the airdate. Larry and Joyce rode around with us for a day – a snowy, freezing winter day, which was all the more impressive because they're Californians. They treated Beth with respect and dignity, and she was very fond of them by the time they went home. She's even corresponded with Joyce since then.

Did Beth ever meet Rosie?
Beth was a little hesitant about meeting Rosie. Beth felt self-conscious about meeting a movie star, and Rosie's schedule was packed, making it hard for her to set up a visit.  Eventually, everyone decided that the best way to handle things was for Beth to keep living her own life, and for Rosie to work off a videotape of Beth to understand her character better. In addition, Rosie spent time with a friend who has developmental disabilities, so some of the mannerisms in the movie are the result of that relationship, and not her observations from the videotape.

What was it like to visit the set?
It was so emotionally overwhelming to watch other people reenacting my memories that I actually kept breaking down and crying during the filming of the scenes. Fortunately, the crew was so busy with their own tasks that no one noticed. I suppose there's some irony in this: I was crying away all on my own, in the midst of a crowd of a hundred that was filming my life for millions.

But there was also much that impressed me during the filming. One was how much Rosie inhabited the character of Beth, and how she brought a sense of humor to the role that deepened the portrayal all the more. Another was how well Andie and Rosie came off as sisters - sometimes arguing, sometimes sharing memories, sometimes being tender with each other. I also loved the great chemistry between the Rachel character and Driver Rick.

In addition to all this, I loved learning just how scenes get set up and shot, and what kinds of tricks they use - sometimes very simple ones - to pull off certain effects. For instance, there was a moment when the Rachel character is driving down the road, sees Jessie on his bike, and stops to have a talk. (This also happened in the book, and of course real life.) There was concern that her car's engine would overwhelm the sound of their dialogue, so four guys from the crew actually stood behind the car to push it at the end of the scene! That way, Andie didn't have to have the motor running.

Perhaps my favorite moment was when I was asked to be an extra in a scene. It's the last scene with Rachel, near the end of the movie. We're in an art gallery, and I'm one of the patrons in the crowd, pantomiming conversation with the man I was paired with. I'm wearing an orange-red blazer and am seen only for a split second, in profile. So be alert! On our first viewing, my own sister missed it.

How did Beth feel when she saw the movie? How did you feel?
The first time we saw the movie was in Driver Jacob's living room, along with his family and Jesse. None of us could resist making a lot of comparisons at first, with Beth being the loudest: "I don't do that. I don't do that. I do that." But then she stopped verbalizing the comparisons, and we all just watched, sometimes laughing, sometimes crying. Afterwards, Beth said she liked it a lot, and that she thought Rosie was really good. "But she's not really me," she emphasized, and we agreed. By the next day she was excited about the movie, which was now real to her.

I think it's a poignant, moving, and powerful film that showcases Rosie's astounding acting abilities. It also portrays both characters, as well as the struggles of the special sibling relationship in a more realistic way than we usually get to see in film, and presents bus drivers as the everyday heroes that I now know them to be.

In addition, the movie highlights some of the main themes from my book: Beth's right to live her life by her own choices, the importance of public transportation for a fully independent life, the essential need for friendships in the community, and the challenges and rewards of the sibling bond. The fact that the filmmakers kept these themes amazes and thrills me.

There were some changes from the book. How did you feel about the idea that anything might be changed?
People assume that I'd be angry about any changes, but I haven't been. For one thing, when you get involved with filmmakers, you know they'll make some changes, so I was prepared for alterations. Larry Sanitsky also explained the major changes to me before I saw the script, and explained the reasons behind each change. Most of the reasons involved the fact that we were now in a visual medium, so certain things like Rachel's character development, or her motivation to enter Beth's world, needed to be handled in a more visually dramatic way. All the reasons made sense to me. Plus, Larry asked me to read and comment on the script, and when I did, he took every one of my suggestions. I felt very well-treated.

In addition, for me the big lesson of my year on the buses was that I needed to learn how to love my sister without trying to control her. After all, truly accepting someone, as self-determination helped me learn to do, means stepping back and not trying to control. When the movie entered development, I realized that I wasn't going to be able to control the outcome – so I just applied the very same lesson. After all, if I can't control Beth, why should I think I could control Hollywood? The process was easy and painless once I made that connection.

What were the major changes from the book? (Caution: spoilers!)
In terms of the story, the biggest change is that our father passes away in the movie, whereas in real life he's very much alive. The moviemakers did this so that the character of Rachel would be forced back into her sister's life through something more obviously emotional than an editor assigning her to ride with her sister, or Beth's asking Rachel to continue riding for a year. My father took the news of his fictional departure in stride. "But how will they make a sequel?" he asked.

Another major change in the story is that Rachel is still living with Sam at the start of the movie. In the book and real life, the relationship was already over four years before the ride began. Also, in the movie, Rachel has never told Sam about her sister, but that was not the case in the book. Neither Sam nor I was troubled by this artistic liberty.

In addition, a major point in the story was left out of the movie. When the movie Rachel and her brother leave their mother's house, and Beth stays behind, the flashbacks stop. In the book, some very hard experiences ensued which were traumatic for Beth and Rachel, but the filmmakers decided to omit that material. It was thought that the family would have a hard time watching that part of the story on TV. The family was pleased with this omission.

Other changes in the story involve the drivers. Rick in the movie is actually a combination of Rick and Jacob. Pradlip is a made-up character, but one who is very much like some drivers I've met. Most of the other drivers are referred to in the book.

There are also four siblings in my family, not three, as there are in the movie.

As for the characters, Beth in the movie has some mannerisms that are not like Beth in real life. Some of these are grand gestures, such as the movie Beth pushing in front of other passengers to get on the bus. (Beth would not do that.) Some of these are smaller gestures. In real life, Beth holds her mouth somewhat differently than the movie Beth. Movie Beth also drinks Coke, whereas Real Beth would only drink diet Pepsi.

Rachel is a fashion photographer in the movie, but was, at that time, a writer and professor in real life. Most of her reactions mirror mine, but I tend to be a lot more outgoing and lively than the Rachel in the movie. Andie MacDowell also looks a lot better than I do in the morning (not to mention throughout the day!).

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